Dealing With The Crazymakers In Your Life

Author: David Hawkins
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
ISBN: 0736931384
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Some of the most difficult people to deal with are those who fail to take responsibility for their lives and who wreak havoc in their relationships. Author and relationship doctor David Hawkins offers help for those caught unavoidably in the craziness of a disordered person's life. With clear explanations, examples, and real life solutions, Hawkins shows readers how to develop healthy life skill tools and boundaries when, why, and how to confront a person who drives them crazy how disordered people think, act, and see the world Anyone trapped in another person's cycle of disorder will discover ways to change their own response, perspective, and communication, and ultimately will find the hope of peace in the chaos.

Crazymakers

Author: Paul Meier
Publisher: Thomas Nelson
ISBN: 1418529931
Size: 30.67 MB
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Living with insensitive, tactless, careless, inattentive, difficult, self-absorbed, neglectful, damaging, condemning, harsh, hard, treacherous, deceiving, prejudiced, and paralyzing people...can make you crazy! Chances are, there's at least one person like that in your life right now-a person who is always right. Behavior ranges from indifference and unconcern to complete narcissism and destruction. Dr. Paul Meier and Dr. Robert Wise created this important text to assist you in recognizing this behavior and dealing with it. Their most important message: It's not you! It's them! The doctors' insight will help you understand how narcissistic people think and how they affect those around them. Finally, they offer Seven Steps to help you walk out of a crisis with someone like this.

When Pleasing Others Is Hurting You

Author: David Hawkins
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
ISBN: 0736939903
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A fresh new cover introduces the proven principles in this popular title...more than 75,000 copies sold...to a new group of readers. Christians are called to be servants. But people who forfeit their God-given calling and identity in order to please others move from servanthood to codependency. How can they get back on track? Clinical psychologist David Hawkins offers a Christian perspective on healthy relationships and the pitfalls of being a people pleaser. He answers such important questions as... Where does Christian service end and codependency begin? What emotional needs lead to codependency, and how can those needs be met in healthier ways? How can parents help their children avoid codependent behavior? Readers will resonate with the real-life illustrations of people who no longer know what they think, want, or feel. Suggestions for redirecting unhealthy relationships empower readers to rediscover their own value and personal contribution.

The Relationship Doctor S Prescription For Living Beyond Guilt

Author: David Hawkins
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
ISBN: 0736954392
Size: 76.93 MB
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Dr. David Hawkins explains the difference between real guilt, false guilt, shame, and conviction, bringing these hidden feelings into the light and demonstrating how they can reveal the true causes of emotional pain. He demonstrates that feelings of guilt can come not only from our own poor choices but also from other sources, such as... perfectionism rejection from a family member or friend failure--real or perceived emotional or verbal abuse codependency Readers will be encouraged and inspired to take responsibility for their lives as they discover biblically sound remedies for each of the four kinds of guilt and strategies for avoiding guilt in the future.

When The Man In Your Life Can T Commit

Author: David Hakins
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
ISBN: 0736934049
Size: 16.44 MB
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"Commitment." To many men this is a scary word--to the women who love them, it is a goal many fear their man will never attain. With empathy and insight, Dr. Hawkins uncovers the telltale signs of commitment failure, why the problem exists, and how women can respond, interact, and create a life with the men they love. Women will be glad to have this book in hand as they discover why excuses sabotage a relationship how to help the man in your life see the value of commitment how limited expectations lead to a limited life For women in a relationship or considering one, this much-needed book unravels the mysteries of relational intimacy and offers hope for those desiring commitment.

The Relationship Doctor S Prescription For Healing A Hurting Relationship

Author: David Hawkins
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
ISBN: 0736954384
Size: 16.82 MB
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Dr. David Hawkins uncovers the hidden reasons why couples may be hurting emotionally. He offers practical steps couples can take to heal their hurt and lays out a plan for preventing needless pain in the future. This concise and easily accessible manual also identifies several communication strategies that couples often use but that actually never work, and it offers more helpful alternatives: Focus on ways you can agree, not ways you disagree. Attack the problem, not the person. If you're winning arguments, you're losing the battle. Readers will find plenty of helpful alternatives to their destructive communication patterns and a full supply of easy-to-use steps to increase their emotional intimacy and restore the joy in their relationships.

Breaking Everyday Addictions

Author: David Hawkins
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
ISBN: 0736932542
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Addiction is a rapidly growing problem among Christians and non-Christians alike. Even socially acceptable behaviors, such as shopping, eating, working, playing, and exercising, can quietly take over. Clinical psychologist David Hawkins breaks the silence with this enlightening expos of the addictions that control people every day. It's loaded with practical information that will help readers... recognize and talk about addiction in their own life or family understand how people become addicted and what can happen when they do break the addictive cycle of thoughts and behaviors create a healthier lifestyle based on scriptural principles build a community of support Virtually everyone is addicted to something or affected by a loved one who is. Many people who appear to live freely are secretly controlled by their compulsion. "Breaking Everyday Addictions" provides the tools they need to allow the healing power of Christ to permeate their lives.

When Loving Him Is Hurting You

Author: David Hawkins
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
ISBN: 0736969810
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It's Okay to Have Needs of Your Own You fell in love with him. But over time you've come to realize he's in love with himself—and you feel trapped. His needs, his problems, and his plans always seem to take precedence over yours. Dr. David Hawkins, director of the Marriage Recovery Center, offers a guide to help you identify signs of narcissism, understand how your loved one's issues are affecting you, and prepare a biblical game plan for freeing yourself to live courageously in light of God's love. Whether the man in your life can be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), exhibits narcissistic traits and emotionally abusive behavior, or has arrogant and self-centered tendencies, the emotional pain he causes you is very real. Discover the truths, wisdom, and grace you need to spark change in your relationship, set boundaries, and experience healing.

Living Beyond A Broken Marriage

Author: Dr. David B. Hawkins
Publisher: Baker Books
ISBN: 9781441201928
Size: 62.28 MB
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What happens when a wife says, "I don't love you anymore"? What happens when a husband says he is going to move out? What does the partner do? How does he or she survive the devastation? Clinical psychologist Dr. David Hawkins offers heartbroken readers his straightforward yet sensitive wisdom for rebuilding their lives. He addresses the realities that reconciliation is not easy and may require separation first--or may not come at all. He helps readers work through their grief and the tough decisions ahead in order to heal their lives, whether or not their marriage is ultimately reconciled. Dr. Hawkins's trustworthy guidance offers compassion and hope to both partners in a failing relationship. Pastors and counselors will recommend this book to those facing this urgent yet rarely addressed struggle.

Men Just Don T Get It But They Can

Author: David Hawkins
Publisher: Harvest House Pub
ISBN: 9780736912310
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That's ultimately up to him. But you can help him in ways that may surprise you, and in the process you will be sure to ignite a new spark in your relationship. With more than 25 years of counseling experience, Dr. David Hawkins offers insight and practical steps to bring about real change: Believe that your relationship can be much better than it is. Expect real change -- and take real action to achieve it. Uncover the subtle lies and excuses that hold you back and embrace truths that can release you. Identify your true feelings and beliefs, and learn to share them. Replace tactics of manipulation and control with more helpful, biblical solutions.